Lord Ram and Goddess Sita

Lord Ram and Goddess Sita

13th century , CE,Bhopal Museum

        The eternal pair of Ram and Sita is the ideal couple in Hindu mythology. Ram is the most pious king as He upholds the Dharma ( righteous conduct) at every step of his life. He is the ideal son, and the ideal brother. However, His credentials as an ideal husband have been questioned. People claim that he was unkind to Sita on two occasions : when He asked her to prove her chastity, and when He exiled her to the forest. 

        What has been seen as a short coming in Ram's character, has strengthened Sita as a character.  In fact, Sita is considered one of the five Satis  (powerful women ) in Sanskrit literature.  Born of mother Earth, She has a will of her own. When Ram tries to persuade her not to come to the forest with him, she tells him about the Dharma of a wife ; when Lakshman hesitates to leave her alone when Ram has gone away to chase the golden deer, she chides Lakshman;  when Ram asks her to prove her chastity, she chides Ram. Eventually as a sign of protest she leaves Ram only to enter mother Earth.  She is not a weakling, she is a woman with an independent mind. Yet, she knows the limits placed by the society. She balances her role as a wife, daughter-in-law, as a sister-in-law, and as a mother. She is not a simple character, but is a strong persona in Valmiki' s Ramayan. She can be a role model for the modern woman: upright, independent, forthright, articulate, intelligent,  and one who stands up to question the orthodoxy of the society. She is not the one to be confined by the artificial limits of the society. She may be tolerant like mother Earth,  but she is not docile and weak.